A Mother’s Advice

1. Read: Ecclesiastes 12:1

2. About the Text:

1) It is good to remember God in our youth.

2) This sets the whole “tone” for our entire life.

3) Psalm 71:17 states, “O God, thou hast taught me from my youth; And hitherto have I declared thy wondrous works.”

4) There are some things that we need to know from our youth that mothers encourage.

5) These things are beneficial for our youth, but also for our aged as well.

3. Ref. to S, T, P, O, and A.

1. Being principled means that you do what is right for the mere fact that it is right.

2. It means not being influenced to do the wrong thing based upon emotions.

1) It is important to learn how to make non-emotional decisions.

2) So many in our society today make decisions based upon emotion.

3) “If it feels good then do it” is their philosophy.

4) “Drink, smoke, do drugs, fornicate, lie, cheat, steal – as long as you don’t get caught!”

5) Many do these things because it makes them feels good.

6) Hebrews 11:24-26 teaches us that Moses was a principled man.

3. It means not being influenced to do the wrong thing because of friends.

1) We all need and want friends and to be accepted by friends.

2) Friends can be a good influence on our life.

3) But friends can also influence us for the wrong.

4) It is important that we influence our friends for good, but not for evil.

5) 1 Cor.15:33 ASV “Be not deceived, evil companionships corrupt good morals.”

4. It means not being influenced to do the wrong thing because of one’s environment.

1) There are all kinds of troubles in the world.

2) Each one of you will experience your share of suffering, pain, and difficulties.

3) It is quite tempting to let the storms of life sweep you away from your moorings.

4) Losing faith or giving in to some temptation won’t solve any of these problems.

5) Resolute endurance, steadfastness, patience, and longsuffering will see you through.

6) James 5:10-11 “Take, brethren, for an example of suffering and of patience, the prophets who spake in the name of the Lord. Behold, we call them blessed that endured: ye have heard of the patience of Job, and have seen the end of the Lord, how that the Lord is full of pity, and merciful.”

1. She knows where you’ve been.

1) It is thrilling to be young; to have energy and want to go places and do things.

2) One wants to experience the riches of life; take in all experiences; see the sights.

3) Your mother knows this; she was once your age; she knows your thinking.

4) There is not a desire that you have that she didn’t have.

5) This is a hard concept to understand until you have experienced it.

6) There are good reasons why your mother tells you “no” or limit your activities.

7) Colossians 3:20 “Children, obey your parents in all things: for this is well pleasing unto the Lord.”

2. She knows the consequences of poor choices.

1) It is very important to consider the consequences of our choices.

2) It’s not easy to know the consequences of our choice if we’ve never made that choice.

3) God gives us mothers that she can tell us what will happen as a result of our choices.

4) Perhaps your mother made some poor choices; just about everyone does.

5) Consider Proverbs 3:1-4 “My son, forget not my law; but let thine heart keep my commandments: For length of days, and long life, and peace, shall they add to thee. Let not mercy and truth forsake thee: bind them about thy neck; write them upon the table of thine heart: So shalt thou find favour and good understanding in the sight of God and man.”

3. She has wisdom that comes from experience and observation.

1) Mothers and grandmothers have experienced more than have you.

2) As you grow older, you learn how other people think and react to life.

3) Consider Proverbs 6:20-23 “My son, keep thy father’s commandment, and forsake not the law of thy mother: Bind them continually upon thine heart, and tie them about thy neck. When thou goest, it shall lead thee; when thou sleepest, it shall keep thee; and when thou awakest, it shall talk with thee. For the commandment is a lamp; and the law is light; and reproofs of instruction are the way of life.”

1. You can’t go back.

1) There are points in life where you step over a threshold that you won’t cross again.

2) Getting your first job. Getting married. Having children.

3) The passing years move your life onward to a point where you will never return.

4) Friends you now know will move; brothers and sisters will grow up and leave.

5) You will never quite be able to recapture the experiences of your youth.

6) James 4:14 “Whereas ye know not what shall be on the morrow. For what is your life? It is even a vapour, that appeareth for a little time, and then vanisheth away.”

2. Don’t wish your life away.

1) In school, my friends and I would always say, “I wish this” and “I wish that.”

2) I had a teacher who used to tell us, “Don’t wish your life away.”

3) There is something to be said about treasuring the moment you have right now.

4) Philippians 4:11 “I have learned, in whatsoever state I am, therein to be content.”

5) Matthew 6:34 “Be not therefore anxious for the morrow: for the morrow will be anxious for itself. Sufficient unto the day is the evil thereof.”

3. Make the most of your opportunities.

1) It is said that opportunity only knocks once, and it can be hard to see opportunities.

2) Some opportunities are inconsequential; others only come once in a lifetime.

3) Turning down a good opportunity will result in regret and there will be some.

4) Perhaps most importantly are the opportunities we have to do what is right.

5) Galatians 6:10 “As we have therefore opportunity, let us do good unto all men, especially unto them who are of the household of faith.”

6) You will never regret having done something good for another.

1. A mother’s advice is . . .

1) Learn what it means to be principled.

2) Listen to your mother and grandmother.

3) Treasure the moments that you have.

2. Invitation

1) We spoke about opportunity.

2) God has given us another day and another opportunity to repent.

3) Jesus told several parables about opportunity.

4) There is the parable of the Great Feast in Luke 14:16ff.

5) Many were invited but did not come. They didn’t take advantage of their opportunities.

6) Why not take advantage of the opportunity God offers for salvation?